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Did you know that babies get strong enough to be able to walk from falling down?
That’s right, they get the muscle strength they need to be able to walk by falling and picking themselves up off the floor again and again. Meaning if they never fell down, they would have never been able to walk?!?!
If they never failed, they never would have had the strength to succeed.
Can you imagine falling as a baby and just deciding that it meant something negative about you and just giving up trying?? NO WAY!!!
If you missed my reels last week, I talked about learning how to HEAR NO and NOT make it mean anything negative about you. Such as that you are not worthy, not respected, not good enough, not successful, etc….
Because when you make NO mean something negative about you, you will avoid asking for things where you THINK you might hear a NO, which holds you back from asking for more money, more opportunities, relationships, so many things…just because you don’t want to feel what you are making NO mean about you.
The truth is that NO is neutral, it is just a word. Seriously, just a 2 letter word ?@!# and you get to choose to believe what NO means about you. Choice is one of the greatest superpowers we have. Your baby self didn’t take NO for an answer, it just keep going!!
For me, when I hear NO, I CHOOSE to believe the following:
- That’s just one more NO away from hearing a YES
- It wasn’t meant to be NOW, but it will be in the FUTURE
- I honor that person’s CHOICE and I believe everything is happening in perfect timing
- And my favorite – THIS IS HOW I LEARN TO WALK (OR RUN)
So, what is one empowering
thing you want NO to mean to you? Share below.
And if you want more help learning how to hear
NO and to keep going after your dreams, NO matter what.