Hello,
I'm Kat.

I don't follow the status quo.

I break beliefs that don't work & create worlds that feel glorious.

Wanna join me?

Struggling with a repetitive, stressful situation? Take the 4 Elements Quiz to find out how to start feeling better today.

Struggling with a repetitive, stressful situation?
Take the 4 Elements Quiz to find out how to start feeling better today.

I used to know a lot of conflict too, fighting with my husband over household chores, in a cold war with my kids over not eating their dinner and trying to balance my own needs & society's expectations of me ad nauseam (it was exhausting AF) until I hit

*Pause*

and started a deep practice of re-connecting to my intuition & the earth's natural wisdom. I noticed harmonious relationships exist everywhere in nature (bees & flowers, O2 and CO2) and that in order to find the harmony & balance I was looking for, I needed to learn & model the organic wisdom all around me.

That is how the 4 Element Method started and I have created this easy, simple 6 week program to share with you the wisdom that took me 10 years to gather.

I used to know a lot of conflict too, fighting with my husband over household chores, in a cold war with my kids over not eating their dinner and trying to balance my own needs & society's expectations of me ad nauseam (it was exhausting AF) until I hit

*Pause*

and started a deep practice of re-connecting to my intuition & the earth's natural wisdom. I noticed harmonious relationships exist everywhere in nature (bees & flowers, O2 and CO2) and that in order to find the harmony & balance I was looking for, I needed to learn & model the organic wisdom all around me.

That is how I transmitted the 4 Element Method and I have created this easy, simple 6 week program to share with you the wisdom that took me 10 years to gather.

The 4 Element Method

The 4 Element Method

Do You Agree?

The way we have been doing things is breaking us apart. We might now have started it, but we can do something to change it.

Can you feel in your bones that the answer is connected back to the earth? That it is way more simpler than we thought?

Are you ready to step out of the "the line" & create a better world, for yourself, for your kids, for all?

The change you want to see in the world starts at home, in you, and grows into a larger movement as we start to live from a place of more happiness, harmony & love.

The 4 Elements Method was created out of my desire to find a more harmonious method to resolving conflict after working for 10+ years in litigation & negotiations and seeing how prejudiced, unproductive & harmful most conflict resolution was and how it was rooted in patriarchal/hierarchical tools that caused a cascade of more conflict, such as distrust, fear, retaliation, shutdown & inauthenticity.

I started seeing I was using some of the same tools in my own life that actually cause more conflict (judging, shaming, yelling, withholding, avoiding, running away) with myself, my family & my relationships (by default, because I didn't know any better way). I knew in my heart there was a better way. That is how I began to create the 4 Element Method. I use it everyday to solve both big & conflicts that arise with ease.

Are you ready to learn a new way of navigating conflict that adds more harmony & happiness to your life & the world?

Do You Agree?

The way we have been doing things is breaking us apart. We might now have started it, but we can do something to change it.

Can you feel in your bones that the answer is connected back to the earth? That it is way more simpler than we thought?

Are you ready to step out of the "the line" & create a better world, for yourself, for your kids, for all?

The change you want to see in the world starts at home, in you, and grows into a larger movement as we start to live from a place of more happiness, harmony & love.

The 4 Elements Method was created out of my desire to find a more harmonious method to resolving conflict after working for 10+ years in litigation & negotiations and seeing how prejudiced, unproductive & harmful most conflict resolution was and how it was rooted in patriarchal/hierarchical tools that caused a cascade of more conflict, such as distrust, fear, retaliation, shutdown & inauthenticity.

I started seeing I was using some of the same tools in my own life that actually cause more conflict (judging, shaming, yelling, withholding, avoiding, running away) with myself, my family & my relationships (by default, because I didn't know any better way). I knew in my heart there was a better way. That is how I began to create the 4 Element Method. I use it everyday to solve both big & conflicts that arise with ease.

Are you ready to learn a new way of navigating conflict that adds more harmony & happiness to your life & the world?

IMGL5994

A little more about me:


Hi, I'm Kat Weissner, I'm a certified life coach, energy/somatic session practitioner, intersectional feminist, happily married to my soul mate for 13 years and mama bear to 3 little people.

As an avid gardener, I have always come back to the earth to heal & and have been drawn to the truths she holds. Unlike so many manufactured things we see around us that seek to deplete & control, she holds the key to harmony, peace and all of life secrets. She's been doing it for thousands of years.

If you feel the longing in your bones to re-connect to her organic, natural wisdom, book a call with me to journey back home to who you truly are, harmonious love.

IMGL5994

A little more about me:


Hi, I'm Kat Weissner, I'm a certified life coach, energy/somatic session practitioner, intersectional feminist, happily married to my soul mate for 13 years and mama bear to 3 little people.

As an avid gardener, I have always come back to the earth to heal & and have been drawn to the truths she holds. Unlike so many manufactured things we see around us that seek to deplete & control, she holds the key to harmony, peace and all of life secrets. She's been doing it for thousands of years.

If you feel the longing in your bones to re-connect to her organic, natural wisdom, book a call with me to journey back home to who you truly are, harmonious love.

Feel better today:

Feel better today:

"The supreme good is like water,
which nourishes all things without trying to.
It is content with the low places that people disdain.
Thus it is like the Tao.

In dwelling, live close to the ground.
In thinking, keep to the simple.
In conflict, be fair & generous.
In governing, don't try to control.
In work, do what you enjoy.
In family life, be completely present.

When you are content to be simply yourself
and don't compare or compete,
everybody will respect you."

- Tao Te Ching, Stephen Miller translation

Scroll to Top

Want more Harmony in your relationships & life?

Sign up to get my emails.
You can always unsubscribe at any time if you change your mind.

Book Free Call